The recent spate of youth suicides linked to anti-gay bullying has educators around the country re-analyzing school policies and strategies for making schools safe for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered students.
In Colorado, a coalition of funders and advocacy groups supportive of LGBT issues has begun exploring ways to elevate the profile of school safety issues, said Jason Marsden, executive director of the Matthew Shepard Foundation in Denver.
“It feels to us like there’s a groundswell of movement in this area,” he said.
Later this month, Assistant Deputy Secretary of Education Kevin Jennings, who heads the Office of Safe and Drug-Free Schools for the U.S. Department of Education, will be addressing educators at the Colorado Safe Schools Regional Training in Pueblo.
The conference is jointly hosted by the Colorado School Safety Resource Center and the Center for the Study of Prevention of Violence at CU-Boulder.
Jennings, the founder of the Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network (GLSEN), has become a lightning rod for conservative criticism for his outspoken support for making schools safe and friendly for LGBT students.
He’ll be delivering the morning keynote at the conference on Oct. 21, with the topic “Safe and Supportive Schools: Creating an Environment Where Everyone Can Learn.”
Summit in works for DPS
Denver Public Schools board member Andrea Merida said she and fellow board member Mary Seawell hope to put together a summit within the next 60 days to listen to the concerns of LGBT students, with an eye toward strengthening anti-bullying policies and encouraging gay/straight alliances – student clubs supportive of all students – within DPS.
“We really want to make sure we’re setting up a situation where all students feel safe and feel valued, but still respecting cultural and family choices,” she said.
“I want to hear from kids that either identify as other than heterosexual and from other kids who are suffering bullying. I want to understand what’s going on from the kids’ perspective.”
Merida said she will also meet with representatives from One Colorado, a gay rights non-profit, and Colorado Organization for Latina Opportunity and Reproductive Rights (COLOR) to discuss involving those and other groups in the discussions.
“We want to make sure, for example, that when we talk to kids about reproductive choices or safe sex, we’re not inadvertently painting anything other than heterosexual practices as outside the norm,” she said. “That’s one place to start. We want to make sure we respect the choices that all kids make.
“Ultimately, we’re seeing the data about suicides, about dropout rates for kids who express themselves in a non-heterosexual way, or who are perceived as non-heterosexual, and if we want to be serious about graduating all our kids, we have to address this,” Merida said.
Last week, the Denver-based National Education Policy Center, in collaboration with two other groups, released “Safe at School,” a brief describing the safety concerns of LGBT students, along with policy recommendations and model statute language.
“All 50 states have language mandating that schools maintain a safe school environment,” said Sheila Kuehl, former California state senator from Santa Monica and co-author of the report.
‘It’s not just fire drills, metal detectors’
“The thing that’s important for educators to understand is that a safe environment is not just fire drills and metal detectors,” Kuehl said. “Danger isn’t just gang violence and earthquakes. The day-to-day safety of students very often depends on what we call the school climate. Is it a climate in which some students feel bullied or harassed?
“Once you decide that yes, bullying and harassment are antithetical to a safe school environment, then you must take steps to do something,” added Kuehl, who is the author of the “Dignity for All Students Act,” which protects students against discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity in all California schools.
“There are a lot of people finally recognizing that school is hell for a lot of people, and a particular kind of hell for students who either are or are perceived to be LGBT, and the school has a responsibility to do something about that.”
Among the brief’s policy recommendations:
- Educators must focus on school climate, and be proactive rather than reactive. They must commit to inclusive policies, end discriminatory discipline practices, stop inappropriately referring LGBT students to special education classes and promote more LGBT-specific programs in individual schools.
- The curriculum – and the way it’s taught – needs to better reflect LGBT concerns. This might mean, for example, including reference to same-sex parents in elementary grades, LGBT-related content within a middle school current events class, and the inclusion of gay and transgender rights movements in high school history classes.
- Organized sports should be scrutinized for homophobia and made more inviting for LGBT student athletes.
‘Claptrap’ from some conservatives
Kuehl knows those kinds of recommendations will draw the wrath of some conservative groups. This summer, the Colorado Springs-based Focus on the Family launched an attack on anti-bullying rhetoric as a means to promote a “gay agenda.”
But Kuehl doesn’t buy that argument and is blunt about it.
“Focus on the Family is full of claptrap,” she said. “The courts certainly have thrown out every challenge to anti-bullying laws. They think they’re making a point that there’s some connection between barring bullying and infringement on free speech. But they are ignorant of the law.”
The Colorado School Safety Resource Center offers a comprehensive collection of anti-bullying resources.
Another report, to be published in November in Developmental Psychology but already available online, finds that young adults who endured bullying during adolescence are far more likely to suffer depression later in life than their non-bullied peers, and that homophobic bullying is more widespread and more traumatic than any other kind of victimization.
“I wasn’t surprised to see this. We’ve always believed this,” said Caitlin Ryan, director of the Family Acceptance Project at San Francisco State University and co-author of the study.
“But we live in a data-infused period. To be able to show this empirically is important. Now, when critics fight anti-bullying laws, we can show that anti-LGBT victimization is the highest and has the most negative outcomes, even when compared to other kinds of victimization.”
Shawna Kemppainen, executive director of Inside/Out Youth Services, an advocacy group in Colorado Springs, insists that this is not merely an issue for gays.
“For every one LGBT student assaulted because of their actual sexual orientation or gender identity, there are four straight students assaulted because someone thinks they look or act ‘gay,’ ” she said.
“When we create safer schools for all kids, including LGBT youth, overall more students graduate and become productive adults. This is good for the entire community.”
Rebecca Jones may be reached at rjones@ednewscolorado.org.



















In spite of of your views about sexual orientation, we all must strive to make our schools completely safe for everyone because everyone deserves nothing less. Safety is a basic necessity for which everything else is built upon. Without that everyone suffers regardless.
“For every one LGBT student assaulted because of their actual sexual orientation or gender identity, there are four straight students assaulted because someone thinks…….. “…….this is 100% true. Finally they are bringing in some anti-bullying laws. This is good news for all who have silently suffered bullying.
I looked at your About Us section, and it promises “balanced” journalism. This sentence below is anything but, and constitutes misinformation at best and a smear at worst:
Jennings, the founder of the Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network (GLSEN), has become a lightning rod for conservative criticism for his outspoken support for making schools safe and friendly for LGBT students.
No, conservatives don’t object to making schools safe and friendly for all studients. They object to Jennings’ group’s pornographic reading lists for kids, his group’s sponsorship of graphic materials and presentations to kids (see the “Fistgate” story from 2000) and his view that anyone who thinks homosexuality is wrong is motivated solely by hate. Your characterization above is a prime example of slanted coverage intended to misrepresent and create an unpleasant caricature of his critics GLSEN has a well documented track record of radical homosexual activism, (have you seen their recommened book Rainbow Boys?) which the press ignores out of ideological bias.
It is time for schools to focus on anti-bullying measures – regardless of sexual orientation, questioning, religious affiliation, political persuasion. Public schools are the great democratic laboratory and we need to continue to help all of our students. What is truly sad is that some adults see toleration as some form of propaganda from groups such as GLSEN or some kind of agenda that is out to destroy the United States. What some adults do not realize is that our kids are hurting – too many of them. Suicides, bullying, alienation are all symptomatic of larger issue of intolerance. I am the proud ally sponsor of my schools Gay-Straight-Alliance; and we are very clear that we are openly tolerant for all of our students – regardless of sexual orientation, political persuasion, and most importantly – religious affiliation. After all our schools prayer club exists because the GSA had to file suit in order to be a recognized club; and in allowing GSA, the district had to allow ALL clubs to exist – as they should. It is time to stop all harassment and bullying – regardless of the reasons.
I’d like to point out a FREE documentary film about anti-gay bullying in schools just released by Teaching Tolerance that’s perfect for professional development efforts. See http://www.tolerance.org/bullied
For high school students, Groundspark offers an exceptional film, Straighlaced, which (unfortunately) is not free: http://groundspark.org/our-films-and-campaigns/straightlaced The Gill Foundation here in Colo. helped to fund Straightlaced.
Anti Bullying measures are good. But its not just a gay issue bullying comes in all kinds of forms. Basically it is hateful children and unattentive teachers, parents and administrators. Eveyone is afraid to piss off other parents if you make a stance to hard..dont go to hard disclipline the parents will sue the district oh no!! Whatever, I sub for high school and I dont tolerate it. If you lay out the expectations to students they will generally follow them. Its called leadership. We as parents, teachers and administrators need to step up to the plate a take responsibility and provide the leadership and quit handing the responsibility to someone else.